Talk Again.

You lost someone. We help you get back on the same page.

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Why don't these work?!

You've tried everything, but they all fail...

EMPATHY
LISTENING
CALM
LOGIC
BOUNDARIES
MIRRORING
HUMILITY

Because triggers aren't beliefs
They live in perception.

Why reason fails

Triggers exist in perception, not reasoning.
The only way to remove them is to stay in perception.

Perception

  • Physical
  • Descriptive
  • Agreeable
  • Fiction-friendly
  • Creates trust
  • Effortless

Reasoning

  • Verbal
  • Explanatory
  • Error-correcting
  • Non-fiction
  • Requires trust
  • Effortful

Trigger Score


Trigger score is the pain (0-10) that a topic causes when someone tries to apply reason to it.

We measure it by editing effort: how much other people have to work to not cause you to disconnect from them.

Measure Trigger Score
~2 minutes

What works?

Stop reasoning for now. You have to perceptually synchronize with them.

Slow
Rhythmic
Immersive
Nonverbal
Present
Trigger-proof

The triggers will uninstall themselves, and conflict fades immediately.


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